BEING A MAKER & CARER

5 things I’ve learned from being a Maker & Carer

Being a full-time carer and a full-time creative might sound like two separate lives – but for me, they’ve become beautifully tangled together. Crafting has given me comfort, identity, and a sense of purpose during some of the most difficult moments. Here are five honest things I’ve learned along the way.

1. Creativity Can Be a Lifeline

When you’re supporting someone through a life-changing illness or injury, it’s easy to lose sight of your own needs. Creativity became my space to breathe. Whether it’s a ten-minute sketch, a few rows of crochet, or sewing something just for the joy of it – making has helped me reconnect with myself when everything else feels overwhelming.

2. Perfection Is Overrated

Being a carer means adapting constantly. Plans change, days can go sideways, as can nights, and progress rarely feels linear. That mindset has shaped how I approach making too. I no longer aim for “perfect.” Some of my favourite pieces started with a mistake or a rushed decision. Those little quirks? They make it real. They make it mine.

3. Small Wins Matter

In both caregiving and crafting, it’s the small wins that keep you going. Finishing a make-up bag, selling a banner, or just finding a few moments of peace with a cup of tea and my fabric stash – they all matter. They remind me that I’m still Fran: creative, curious, and capable, even when the days are hard.

4. Routine Can Be Creative

Caring means routine is essential – but that doesn’t mean creativity has to disappear. I’ve learned how to work in short bursts. I might print and cut out a pattern one day, cut out fabric the next day, sew it the next, and photograph it three days later. That pace works for me. Making doesn’t have to be fast to be fulfilling.

5. It’s OK to Ask for Support

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that asking for help is brave. Whether it’s a friend dropping off tea bags, someone encouraging me to sell my creations, or kind words from a stranger who sees value in what I do – that support means everything. Community matters. Creative support matters. And showing up for each other, however we can, matters most. Try not to judge yourself by others. Your successes matter.

If you’re a fellow carer, a creative soul, or someone just trying to find themselves again through making – I see you. You’re not alone.

✨ What has creativity helped you through? I’d love to hear in the comments.

Thanks for reading, Fran x